This has been a
remarkable weekend. New life happens every day but it is not that often that you
get to experience it up close. This weekend I became an aunt for the third
time.
Mothers are
amazing. They carry us for nine months and then suffer immense amounts of pain
when pushing us out into the world.
My teacher used
to say that as actors we have to show our warts and bumps because the
imperfections are what makes us interesting. It is a superficial industry in
many ways so this is not always easy. We go through a lot of effort to hide our
imperfections instead of embracing them.
She said we have
to get in there, we have to do the work and we have to get dirty if we want to
be good at what we do. We struggle a lot with this. It sometimes hurts to be
good.
Next time I am afraid
of showing my warts and bumps and to get really dirty I will think of all
mothers around me and my own. A mother giving birth does the work and shows all her warts
and bumps. She can't afford to think twice about getting dirty. She does the
work like no other.
Did you ever ask
you mother how it was for her to carry you for nine months and how it was when
you were born?
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